The breeder will gladly take your girl because they are harder to get than males. When I had my male African Bullfrog, was looking for a girl locally for a year and all local stores had what looked like males only.
I like your future set-up idea. If you use connecting tubes of different diameters (smaller on female side) that would only allow her to pass but not the larger male providing her with a resting side (if she figures all this up). I've seen something similar work when breeding large agressive fish like Central American cichlids, by using a divider with a hole that let's pass only the smaller female. The difference with frogs is that with their large mouths the male could grab the female in the middle section and it would be all over. Going back to the illustrated set-up; depending on water temperature you might consider a submersible heater for middle area.
If your frogs are 6 and 4 inches, agree with Lija that you can try and place them together now. Please make sure enclosure is large and observe them during initial contact to see what is their reaction to each other. Be ready to separate them again if the male intentions are nefarious, with these guys you never know. Good luck

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