I think that Couch's spadefoots are the best looking of the spadefoots.
In the wild, neonate amphibians eat as much as they possibly can. They need to put on mass as quickly as possible, to outgrow predators, to survive hibernation and estivation, and to reach breeding size as soon as possible. Therefore, in captivity, I believe in giving them as much as they will eat. Little toads do seem to bottomless pits. I recommend feeding very heavily, and I recommend feeding as much variety as possible. In addition to crickets and hydei, I would feed bean beetles, small dubia roaches, and earthworms. These prey items are more nutritious than crickets and fruit flies, and are easily cultured. I don't think it's possible to overfeed a toad, although uneaten crickets do present some risk, as they will chew on captive amphibians and reptiles.
One final recommendation I have would be to add a layer of leaf litter over the substrate. It will help with moisture retention, and offer the toad additional hiding places.