I'm glad your toad is doing so well. I don't use a tweezers to feed my toads or hand feed them. I just drop the food in their tank and watch them to make sure they are all eating good. My kids dropped a slug in their tank one day, and they have not touched it yet, it is just wandering around, doing its own thing. They do LOVE cut up earth worms and little red wigglers though. Some pics of the toad definitely would help.