She was in a plastic tank with no pebbles,, it had a small water section and a plastic land section...no cover. I thought she was going to lay so I scurried out and got a 30 gallon and made a vivarium 1/2 water and 1/2 land tank...She has been getting larger for over a week or so....I introduced her yesterday to the new home and now i check when I wake today and she is skinny...I have no idea. She ate small crickets like crazy, and the male or so I thought male didnt eat really at all...
now she is so frail looking, and he is plump,, so i assumed she laid and he ate them Its the only thing i could come up with..

How do I tell the gender.. I was looking for short toe and long toe?