I toss in some notes here...
The Whites require somewhat more maintenance since their droppings are much larger and they trash the tank pretty routinely. But they are very active at night and many times in the day. They are much more vocal than my Red Eyes too.
The Red Eyes are pretty mellow, talk it up most nights, and since they don't have the weight and appetite of the Whites, the tank needs less spot cleaning or plant change out, They are more active when a pair or more are kept too.
The Red Eyes are more colorful, but Whites are what I'll call more animated, crashing off things and diving for a meal.
The Red Eyes are more precise in grabbing a cricket and I haven't had one break a plant in half as I have with the Whites due to the weight difference.
Its a tough choice. You should be happy either way.
I wouldn't part with my Whites or Red Eyes.