I got him in late January from a lady off Craigslist. Great start, right? Well he is roughly four inches, maybe more it's hard to tell. He overflows in my hand a bit. At any rate, he is 4 years old and might actually be a girl but that's beside the point I'm trying to make.
Upon getting this frog, the woman shoved him and his dirty 10g tank with a metal dog bowl of dirty water and dry substrate into my hands. I was a bit shocked at the condition of the Dirt Mound of a frog, and as she was leaving she conveniently added "oh, he hasn't eaten for three months and he was eating pinkies."
OK, cool. Didn't get if they were live or f/t, but figured I would stop by my work and grab one (I work at a local pet shop). While at work I gave him a bath in RO water, and he shed a LOT OF SKIN. I was a bit worried because frogs are supposed to eat their skin and he showed no interest so maybe it was just mucousey dirt. Whatever. He pooped in the scarf I wrapped him in to keep him warm. Ungrateful dirt son.
Get him home, settle him into a nice "big" 20 long and set him to the side to get used to life with me. He has and bear pad set on the side, a big water dish, enough dirt to bury himself in (which he does), and the temp/humidity is always on point from day one in my care. I give him a few days before I try to feed him. Nothing. Not even an acknowledgement that the food is there.
LONG STORY SHORT, this pacman has been in my care for two months now and I've only gotten him to eat through assisted feeding (working his mouth open gently and tossing in worms/pacman food/feeder fish/that one pinky/crickets). Once the food is in his mouth, he acts 100% normal. Until that point, he acts like he can't see it.
He is quite active when we pull him out to feed him every week, and we only feed him a few small things a week, which is also his weekly bath in warm dechlorinayed water. He hops around (way more impressive than I expected for a frog his size) and he squirms when we pick him up. He doesn't bite or go for anything in front of him though, but we don't think he's blind. He has pooped three times since we picked him up.
Is he dying? Am I doing something wrong? Did this lady give me a defective pacman? I have a lot of questions but I've already posted a wall of text so I'll stop here and scream for help, loudly.