male or female

[monster]

Hi, feeling abit better so thought I would correct a couple things that maybe I didn't make clear due to the meds. L.O.L The coco fibre I meant to say you want it to clump in your hand, but you don't want it wet to the point its dripping water when you squeeze it. And for the leaves I meant to say grab a couple plants that have big leaves for him to hide under, I think from the way I put it lastnight you where thinking I meant something like a leaf litter that you would just lay on the substrate.