Shipping is always going to be like that unless you live right next to them. I just got a baby scorpion that cost $14 but with shipping was nearly $60 (and he's ADORABLE). There's always a risk, but like I said you should wait for more people to chime in with their experiences with different breeders. Maybe start a new thread specifically asking about people's experiences with them.
Here's one I've generally heard positive things about

http://mikesphatfrogs.weebly.com/

They also have more than just your common morphs. If you're really nervous about shipping I'd recommend looking up the next reptile show near you and picking one up there. You usually get a good buy, and can inspect the animal before buying.