Hi I'm Patrick iv Ben raising frogs most of my life but resently I got a new whites who looked constipated when I first brought "who I'm guesing to be she" home but pooped before even going into my viv and have seen her do after but shortly after being introduced one of who I know to be a male latched on and hasent let go for what will soon be 3 days this seems a little excessive for a dominance fight how can I tell for sure??