Firstly, I'm sorry your baby is sick That is always hard. Are you dusting with both vitamins and calcium? Why wax worms and mealworms? That's not a proper diet. Crickets, dubia roaches, or you could even try worms cut to size. Foods should be no longer than the spaces between their eyes. I'm not sure that is the issue with this little guy, but it's a start. Hopefully someone will pop with ideas on what is going on with him.