i am going post crazy today haha, but anyways i finally took time to take some pictures of my fbt's so you can see the difference between male and female
this one is a male named RED, as you can see he has very rough pimply skin, and thick forearms
this one is a female named BLACK and she has much smoother skin, thinner forearms (hard to tell kind of in this pic) and longer toes
i tried to get pictures of the pads on the male's feet but he was not cooperating at all
i hope this helps you all