Thanks for the kindness everyone! I'm feeling much better today after going through grief, then guilt, then more grief, etc. I will never ship frogs again, especially the babies. I think it's just too much to ask their little bodies to go through. I feel so bad for the babe, such precious life in such a little body!
the green baby is still doing well, and ate again for me, so I feel blessed to have him/her still with me.
thanks again