Thanks  Lija 
Any advice on physical behaviour when they are "ready" to eat? She's sitting like a burrowed lump and I don't want to offend her by dangling a worm about if it's just going to stress her out.. But apparently  night time is the best time to feed, so  I'd like to try again.. I tried earlier today and she did not care for food at all.
Is it okay to just try and feed whenever, even if they are burrowed and "resting"?
I'm enjoying having her company regardless, even though she doesn't do much 

Still trying to decide on a better name than Olafa  though. BF says Ophelia but I don't care for that name much! Esme (pronounced Ez-may) was another suggestion..Both Olaf and Esme are from a Series Of Unfortunate Events books by Lemony  Snicket 

 Which we both enjoy 
