What am i doing wrong?

[bowser]

Also i went to check on him and his right eye wont open

[Hypnotic]

Well, I'l be really frank here, if his state is that bad and if he is deteriorating that fast and clearly suffers, I would personally opt for another choise. I can't see an animal suffer, quality of life is the most important factor to me.
I'm sure not everyone will agree with me on this, but from the second I saw the pictures, I had a gut feeling, also reading the description how he reacted when you put him down, it seems little Bowser is going through hell.
If I'm wrong, please point it out to me, but it seems to me that his deformations are beyond repair. Don't base your decision on my opinion alone, I would love for other people to voice their opinions on this.

[Louis Charles Bruckner]

I'll agree with hypnotic your frog is in a very bad state at the moment.I highly recommend taking him to a vet because clearly this frog is suffering and he needs help may be a little bit more help than you can provide.
I don't know where you are in New York but I'm pretty sure there are plenty exotic vets in that area, all you have to do is a Google search for them I'm sure you'll find one.

Good luck.