Well, I can't check on that right now, I decided not to touch him anymore then needed when I saw him tonight, wich was not at all. He looks round and healthy, I'm not sure about an adult male's size though, I'd estimate him at 7-8 cm's in length and he should be fully grown, but I will take a accurate measurement tomorrow.
Also, last time she gave him a normal bath, and he din'd poop. Since then he has eaten and not pooped. So we can pretty much assume for sure he has to go.
The earlyest I can get to her is around noon, so I'l do the bath then and take some locusts over for her to feed at night.