With a baby whites tree frog, you want to feed it daily to every other day crickets the size of the space between his eyes and i would dust with d3 every week if there is no uv light. With the trick you may want to do making him associate your hand with chow time sounds like it could work but it wont hapen right away, it will probably take weeks or months training him. Looking for pairs within young frogs is difficult but the signs when their older is obvious, both frog genders can croak but males generally croak more and have the dark baggy throat, females will be larger than males usually.

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