Bob, I moved your post here to the Tomato frog section for you for a quicker response.

I have never had a Tomato frog. I know their care is similar to a pacman frog, though I would wait for someone knowledgeable in Tomato frogs to answer for you. I'll read through and see if I can help with the basics.

Skimming through quickly, I believe your concern is that you are not sure he is eating? Is that correct?