Thanks for the input. They haven't calmed down at all. The just had another three day session where he would not let go. She tries really hard to shake him off, but it doesn't work. He is grabbing her every night sometimes like this last time, it doesn't let go for days. I have yet to see any eggs in the tank. Today, I noticed something that I thought might be eggs, but I am not sure. One of our plants has little white balls on it, but not a ton. I don't know what else it would be though. I haven't heard our male sing yet, but I would like to.