Ok, so my Banjo, (female eastern american toad) has been with me since the end of Sept, growing from 1.25in to 2.5in, last I measured. That's 7mnths. Recently she wasn't eating, no interest in food save for one bug for a period of about 2 wks. She was also shedding frequently and sleeping a lot. Or whatever it is they do in their burrows. She's since stopped the shedding, but I had to help her remove leftover skin, changed her substrate, and only then did she eat, (day before yesterday I think). And take a poop, which I guess was mostly skin pooped out, as I'm positive she hadn't eaten anything for a week.
Was crazy scared for her, had been giving her honey bathes (3), and am so relieved she ate, tho she hasn't been hungry since then. She's still a fantastic hopper outside, and she walks normal (adorably), so all in all, she looks pretty good.

Have to move back to my bf's house, and he thinks I should let her go, since I don't know anyone I'd trust to care for her or would want to. Bf doesn't like the bugs or the money it costs to take care of her. I'm ok with her going off and living the life she was meant for, but I don't know where I'd let her go. She was picked up off the sidewalk, in a residential area with train tracks on a main road in town. The closest nearby pond is cut in half by a road, and on one side, there is a business complex, so the road gets a lot of fast traffic. The other side is quieter, but there are snakes. That's still my best bet I think. Other ponds around are still near roads and not where she came from, and one in particular has a "no trespassing" sign and that's generally where we hit frogs in the car on warm rainy nights.

What do I do here? I love my little girl, obviously. Too much to put an ad up on craigslist or something, and too much to ship her anywhere. I couldn't bear to think of her in a box on a journey getting bounced around.

Pros and cons of letting her go, and if letting her go, where? All cons can be related back to my bf. I want to make the best decision for her. And I need help to do that. Thanks.