Great try Corey! I can appreciate your honesty. Sometimes bringing other forums into a post or conversation can stir the pot quickly. Sometimes better to stick to personal experiences vs. bringing in other names so-to-speak.
Though we tend to prefer our home here

, both forums can offer us things and education that may be useful. It's all in how we use that information, and how we deal with those we encounter on a personal level

. Take the good with the bad at some level, if you know what I mean

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Keep your head up and keep trying

. Things have been set in motion and maybe they just need some time to practice. You've got the first part down. Now lets hope your male follows through

. Good luck! I'll be excited to see those tads if they do

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