I should also say, thank you all for your help. I am hoping this will really improve frogee's life with me and although we got off to a rough start, I am very happy that I was able to gather some great information.
I will keep updating until bloat decreases (hopefully). I may need some assistance in making sure the tank cycles properly.
I did not rinse his small housing cave on the last change to the 5gal so hopefully some good bacteria hung around.