I have three FBTs. I'm almost certain that I have 2 males & 1 female, going on what I have read on this forum, only in that she is slightly larger than the other two, and I notice they call but she doesn't seem to - but I could be wrong of course.
Anyway, tonight one of the 'boys' has been harassing her for ages grabbing hold of her, and she seems to be getting quite stressed out. She is in the same corner of the tank, leaping up out of the water trying to climb, and constantly on the move back and forth along the tank wall literally bobbing and diving so to speak. As soon as she quietens down, he's there again.
I almost feel like taking her out and putting her in a seperate tank to give her a rest, but she might get more stressed doing that.
Is this normal behaviour, and am I being silly to worry ??