I think John just meant that the photo is a joke-as in, a postive identification of the sex is impossible due to the less than stellar photography. This is just my personal opinion, but if you really want a male pyxie frog, wait for a bit and look into getting one from someone that can be trusted. If this guy was really interested in selling, he would provide better pictures of what he has and he would respond to you immediately. He would also be willing and able to answer any and all questions. If you doubt anything that he is saying, then that might be an indication not to buy from him. I waited almost 6 months to get another frog; I would have waited longer to ensure the one I got was healthy, free from disease and treated right by its previous owner. Your patience and diligence will pay off in the long run!