my wife loves that i am on here and not bothering her.....lol she's fine with the frogs, and as long as i don't call them roaches and she never sees them, she's ok with them...lol maintenance is all me. nobody is allowed to touch my tanks. but my youngest son is becoming quite the accomplished aquarist and frogger. of course, he does have access to a wonderful inventory of plants, animals and equipment. he's now keeping fire bellied toads in a 20L viv i built, along with the 10 gallon planted tank he has.