Question about males and females

[MantisMan]

is the quiet one really big and fat??

[adinco]

no they're about the same size but s/he was the smallest in the tank when my boys picked her/him out which makes me think s/he's still an adolescent with the eating a ton thing. S/he's definitely grown since we got him/her.

[MantisMan]

i have a real tiny mature male, will post pics later