Quote Originally Posted by finnaminna View Post
no would that work better and i see now why whenever he sees me he tries to puff up and he breaths really rapidly and scare me and ill try tong feeding thank you
Sometimes if they're breathing heavily and puffed its because they themselves are scared of you. It does sometimes help to talk to them so that the get used to your voice. With tong feeding just hold the food in them and rub the food on his mouth. He may just take it from you. Do it gently.