well i have no idea if its male or female but the frog is named frank haha, he seems to be in sort of hibernation mode and he still seems like he is not thin or anything but i just cant seem to get him to eat. it still bites my finger every now and again when i get too close. i just want him to be ok. im getting the heat pad and ablue and red lamp soon, but for now is it safer to just leave him be to semi-hibernate or do i keep on buggin him about eating? i just want everything to work out. thanks grif, heather, mafoo, eat noob, and silver for the advice. i wont give up on this frog and i will do all i can to make him comfortable