Harsh words = no help!!

[kueluck]

I have seen several threads when some one has come to frog forum for help and then another person will respond harshly on the public site instead of sending their response via PM. The only reason people are here is because they truly love the amphibians and are seeking advise from experienced people instead of all the conflicting information on the web. And also to share in their wonderful experiences they with their amphibians. Yes it's very sad when some one loses a friend because of mis-information, and it's very frustrating to those who read it, but more so the person who lost their frog or toad because of ignorance on their part!?! Think about how they feel! Next time you want to respond in a not so positive way please PM the person. My concern is that if someone is in need they won't look for help here and isn't that what community is about, helping those in need?