My firebelly toad has 4 days by itself...nice set up. We got it a "friend" this friend turned up to be a female. "Jack" barks at her all day, and pounces on her every time she moves....so "Elizabeth" found a corner and has been there for two days - not coming out....Jack found him a spot in the water facing (staring) at her corner and hasnt moved - what can we do?