well i was leaning more towards female at that point anyway because the head seemed smaller from a frontal view than a male my friend had at the same size. but i wasnt sure and you guys gave me hope.
i got her out a few days later and really studied her and looked at alot of pics of my friend's males and i came to the conclusion that she was female.
shes bigger now and her head looks small from the front. ill dig her out for feeding since shes been burriied for a few days and ill take some pics to show you guys. im 99.9% sure shes female.