It shouldn't be a problem getting a pacman. I'm sure about that. The question is what kind. Most common are the cranwell frogs. Then the ornates can only be found online and the shows. If you find a ornate in a store you hit lotto.lol. Once you get everything right it shouldn't affect the frog. I would clean the setup real good.Infectious control is very important. Make sure the temp is 80. Make sure the water bowl is clean. Make sure he eats every day mostly dusted bugs and earth worms. make sure he is on cocofiber. Make sure the soil is moist but not wet. If you get a bunch of soil and put it in your hand it shouldn't drip water. Make sure you get him from a reputable seller. Make sure i get your weekly check.lol Just kidding

. Its abound having fun and enjoying the Hobie. You should be fine. Its no joke when you loose a family member. I'm just trying to cheer you up.