Welcome Sufikation. My advice for you is, do a little trade off. If you get her the French Bulldog, then you get the pacman. Here's the care sheet for pacmans that should answer some of your questions: Frog Forum - Pacman and Horned Frogs - Ceratophrys - Care and Breeding. Tell your wife how inexpensive and easy to care for they are, I'm sure she will give in. Have a nice day.