Wow that's a long post Well let me see how I can help. You can try to feed them fruit flies pretty much as soon as they morph. If they are really small you can set them up in a 30 gallon (??? Bigger or smaller) tank with water and a way for them to get out of the water. I'm sure the more experienced member will pop on and give some better info I hope this helps!
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